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Amrit Tietz's avatar

Love this Emily!!!♥️

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Maddie Meehan's avatar

The obligation I felt as a small Jewish child to not mess up Santa for my classmates! So much responsibility

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Molly Dickens, PhD's avatar

and the obligation as a Jewish mom of passing this responsibility to your Jewish child who really REALLY wants (neeeeeeeeeeds) to tell their friends 😅.

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Caroline Sutton's avatar

love this you noel freak!!!!!!

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Rachel Hodin's avatar

Take me next time

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Avery Carpenter Forrey's avatar

Big ole white man taking credit again 🎅 This is soooo good!!!

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Louise's avatar

Multiple cheeses 🥰

I feel this all very deeply!!

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Molly Dickens, PhD's avatar

I love this, Emily! It's inspiring me to take a closer look at holiday mental load and maternal labor and how it effects us via our stress system... for the better sometimes? Still working this one out!

(also, funny enough, Passover is also my favorite holiday so you are not alone there!)

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Natalie Barasch's avatar

love being in the jews who love christmas club!

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Ashley Allen's avatar

Christmas is WILD. Thank you for making me realize so much about myself and my experience through this! “Completionism” just wow.

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Christy Drouet's avatar

As a new mom, I can now relate of wanting to create this holiday magic for your kids and the effort it takes to all worth it when they light up.

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Alex Mione's avatar

This is so spot on, as a jewish gal raised with no christmas tree i've fully embraced the holiday spirit thanks to my hubs, but we still do all of the jewish holidays and traditions. best of both worlds - loved this read, thank you!

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Daisy Alpert Florin's avatar

Wonderful and thoughtful. So many complexities in all of this and you capture them perfectly, also the joy!

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Elin Strong's avatar

As someone who spent the bulk of her last therapy session venting about holiday stress (it me), reading this made me feel so seen and less alone. And the gentle reminder in the end was so appreciated, too. We got this!

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Grace Farris's avatar

Wow this is lovey.

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Phoebe Lapine's avatar

Same childhood, same marriage. And I feel #blessed that I can say, we can celebrate Christmas, but you are responsible for it!

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